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Control Your Destiny
CONTROL YOUR DATING DESTINY
Waiting for Something Already Present Don't wait Anymore,
Good Girls Nice Guys is a website devoted to curing the myth that nice guys finish last. If you are a good girl or a nice guy, or looking for one, this is THE place to be in the online dating world.
You have, no doubt, heard the story.
A man is in a flood. The river is overflowing and coming up to the level of the man's house.
As he is standing there, a boat comes up. A person in the boat says, “Jump in, and I’ll take you to safety.” The man crosses his arms and says stubbornly, “Oh no thanks, I put my trust in God.” The boat goes away.
The water rises to the second story. Another boat comes up. A person says to the man, who is now at the second floor window, “Hurry, jump in. I’ll save you.” The man again says, “Oh no thanks, I put my trust in God.” The boat goes away.
Now the water is inching over the roof. As the man stands on the roof, a helicopter comes over, and drops a ladder. The pilot yells down to the farmer, “I’ll save you. Climb the ladder.” The man yells back, “Oh no thanks, I put my trust in God.” The helicopter goes away.
The water continues to rise and sweeps the man off the roof into the swiftly moving water. Unfortunately, he drowns. The man goes to heaven. God sees him and says, “What are you doing here?” The man says, “I put my trust in you, and you let me down.” God says, “What do you mean, let you down? I sent you two boats and a helicopter!”
Now What?
Whether you are religious or not, the story has allegorical meaning to all. And it applies to the dating world.
First, if you are in a relatively healthy relationship, stop waiting for something else to come along. There might be someone better out there. But placing all your faith in the delivery of a perfect person is insane. There are no perfect people.
Repeat. There are no perfect people. It just does not happen. Time and time again we are let down in society by not understanding how "that couple" could get divorced. If you are looking for perfection, you are waiting for something that does not exist to be delivered. You are just as likely to see an elephant playing tennis as you are a perfect person. Think about that.
Second, if you are not in a relationship or in a truly poor one, what are you doing about it? Are you making an inventory of what characteristics are negotiable and not-negotiable? Or are you lamenting the ghosts of relationships-past? And are you trying to find someone else? Or are you just waiting for some mystical force to cause you to meet that special someone. Well, you should probably be doing something. You should be doing something.
This is a world where online dating allows you to invest time looking for someone, while wearing a robe or boxer shorts. You do not need to take a shower to create a profile. You do not need to do your hair to send or reply to an email message. This is an absolutely wonderful time to be alive and looking for someone to date.
Take advantage of the various pay and free online dating sites out there. Control your destiny.
Sincerely,
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Control Your Destiny
CONTROL YOUR DATING DESTINY
Waiting for Something Already Present Don't wait Anymore,
Good Girls Nice Guys is a website devoted to curing the myth that nice guys finish last. If you are a good girl or a nice guy, or looking for one, this is THE place to be in the online dating world.
You have, no doubt, heard the story.
A man is in a flood. The river is overflowing and coming up to the level of the man's house.
As he is standing there, a boat comes up. A person in the boat says, “Jump in, and I’ll take you to safety.” The man crosses his arms and says stubbornly, “Oh no thanks, I put my trust in God.” The boat goes away.
The water rises to the second story. Another boat comes up. A person says to the man, who is now at the second floor window, “Hurry, jump in. I’ll save you.” The man again says, “Oh no thanks, I put my trust in God.” The boat goes away.
Now the water is inching over the roof. As the man stands on the roof, a helicopter comes over, and drops a ladder. The pilot yells down to the farmer, “I’ll save you. Climb the ladder.” The man yells back, “Oh no thanks, I put my trust in God.” The helicopter goes away.
The water continues to rise and sweeps the man off the roof into the swiftly moving water. Unfortunately, he drowns. The man goes to heaven. God sees him and says, “What are you doing here?” The man says, “I put my trust in you, and you let me down.” God says, “What do you mean, let you down? I sent you two boats and a helicopter!”
Now What?
Whether you are religious or not, the story has allegorical meaning to all. And it applies to the dating world.
First, if you are in a relatively healthy relationship, stop waiting for something else to come along. There might be someone better out there. But placing all your faith in the delivery of a perfect person is insane. There are no perfect people.
Repeat. There are no perfect people. It just does not happen. Time and time again we are let down in society by not understanding how "that couple" could get divorced. If you are looking for perfection, you are waiting for something that does not exist to be delivered. You are just as likely to see an elephant playing tennis as you are a perfect person. Think about that.
Second, if you are not in a relationship or in a truly poor one, what are you doing about it? Are you making an inventory of what characteristics are negotiable and not-negotiable? Or are you lamenting the ghosts of relationships-past? And are you trying to find someone else? Or are you just waiting for some mystical force to cause you to meet that special someone. Well, you should probably be doing something. You should be doing something.
This is a world where online dating allows you to invest time looking for someone, while wearing a robe or boxer shorts. You do not need to take a shower to create a profile. You do not need to do your hair to send or reply to an email message. This is an absolutely wonderful time to be alive and looking for someone to date.
Take advantage of the various pay and free online dating sites out there. Control your destiny.
Sincerely,
Click below and Start a new beginning in dating
Good Girls Nice Guys dating site & Buybestlocal.com
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